It’s a tricky subject to broach, and as a nation we’re not good at talking about death. But in fact most of us do have views about what we do and don’t want to happen when the time comes. Death Cafes provide a great place to talk through some of our fears or provide a chance to reflect on a loved one. No need to book, just turn up. A lovely celebrant we know, Frances Tulley, is holding a Death Café this February in Brighton. Let us know if you would like more details https://www.homeandcompany.co.uk/contact/ .
What is a Death Cafe?
Claire and Gazela run Death Cafes in Eastbourne. They say “Our Eastbourne Death Café provides a community space for people to get together and discuss death, dying and end of life, honestly and freely. A Death Café is not a grief support group or counselling session. It offers an inviting, relaxed and respectful space for open discussion, without agenda. And there is nourishing food and drink!” Do check this link for upcoming dates and venue details https://deathcafe.com/deathcafe/16273/
Living Well Dying Well is a brilliant organisation. Amongst other things it helps people to think through and document their preferences. They might include where you want to be, who you want with you, what interventions you wish to have. And those small important details like music, films, food and much more. Living Well Dying Well can also link you up with a Doula if you feel that could be helpful.
What is a Death Doula?
An End of Life Doula is there to support a person, and those important to them, with a terminal diagnosis. They work in the person’s home as well as Hospices, Hospitals and Care Homes. They are there for the elderly and those living with dementia too. Their non-medical role is to preserve the quality of wellbeing, sense of identity and self-worth from the moment they are called upon. If you would like to know more do contact Living well Dying Well on 01273 102511.